[Artikel Mini] Philippa Perry's The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read

 “Whatever age your child is, they are liable to remind you, on a bodily level, of the emotions you went through when you were at a similar stage.” ― Philippa Perry, The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read https://blog.periplus.com/2021/07/19/lima-tips-parenting-dari-the-book-you-wish-your-parents-had-read-nya-philippa-perry/  

This quote from Philippa Perry's The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did) captures a profound insight into parenting: our children often trigger deep, embodied memories of our own childhood emotions at similar developmental stages.It highlights how raising kids isn't just about them—it's also a mirror to our unresolved feelings from the past. When your child hits a certain age or shows certain behaviors, you might suddenly feel intense frustration, fear, protectiveness, or vulnerability that echoes what you experienced back then, often without realizing it at first.Perry emphasizes self-reflection: by recognizing these triggers, parents can avoid projecting old hurts onto their children and instead respond with more empathy and awareness. This helps break negative cycles and build healthier connections.The book overall focuses on fostering strong, respectful relationships rather than rigid rules—validating emotions (yours and theirs), repairing ruptures, and seeing behavior as communication.It's a reminder that good parenting starts with understanding ourselves as much as understanding our kids.Thanks for sharing this thoughtful quote! It's one that really resonates with many parents. Have you read the full book, or is there a particular part of parenting this hits home for you?  #bookquote #parenting #PhilippaPerry